I know how badly you want your family to eat healthfully. I know you want to give your kids the best nutrition possible, otherwise you wouldn’t be here reading about how to do so. But I also know that it can be incredibly frustrating and worrisome when your kids flat out refuse to eat their veggies. In fact, it can be so difficult, that many (most) parents can’t find a solution before giving in and allowing their kids to eat whatever they want, whenever they want.
Unfortunately, this nearly always leads to a diet of macaroni and cheese, string cheese, crackers, sugary cereal, and chicken nuggets…and nothing else. Am I right, moms? I can’t tell you how many times I see Facebook statuses or hear complaints from parents who say their kids will ONLY eat these things. Oftentimes it’s followed up with a laugh or an, “Oh well!” …And that’s the part that scares me. Please don’t give up, Mom! Please don’t give up, Dad!
Because kids are so resilient, they can survive on these completely-fake foods for a very long time, and appear to be healthy and thriving on the outside. But the sad fact is that their little bodies are struggling inside when they don’t get proper pediatric nutrition. It might take just a few months. It might take 3 years or even 10 for some. But instilling these eating habits will eventually lead to a devastation of physical and emotional health.
No matter what you have fed your kids in the past, and no matter what you feed them now, please know that you will never receive judgment from me. I truly believe that anyone reading this WANTS to give their children excellent nutrition, but many don’t know how. I’m here to educate, love, support, and help make healthy eating more simple and easy for you. And as an educator, I need to tell you that almost all of the most common childhood ailments and behavioral problems nowadays are almost always caused by lack of proper pediatric nutrition, and in the cases where they’re caused by something else, it’s made worse by poor nutrition.
This means the opposite is true (let’s remain positive here, shall we?)…
Almost all of the most common childhood ailments
and behavioral problems can be prevented or
noticeably improved by giving your child excellent nutrition.
I’m talking about A.D.H.D., A.D.D., eczema, getting the cold and flu all the time, even asthma, allergies and many autism symptoms can be improved when you feed your little ones the right food.
So how do you make it happen?
What IS Healthy Eating for Kids?
The USDA currently recommends a minimum of 5 servings of fruits and/or vegetables per day. But read the fine print, and you’ll realize that their recommendation is the bare minimum to survive and avoid major disease. But we want more than survival. We want our kids to thrive. We want them to run and play and enjoy themselves. We want them to be happy. Do well in school. Magnify their talents. Live long, fulfilling lives.
Ideally (partly because the quality of fruits and vegetables are not what they used to be), we should be getting more like 6-8 servings of vegetables and 3+ servings of fruit per day. That should be the new minimum, in my educated opinion 😉
But let’s start with the baby steps. I know many children aren’t even getting the USDA’s recommendation of 5 total plant servings per day. And I know your kids are going to FLIP OUT if you immediately switch them from their chicken-nugget/string-cheese diet to plopping 3 cups of salad greens on their dinner plate. So I’m going to share with you the easiest, fastest, and cheapest way to get your picky eaters to eat healthy starting today. Without a fight. Without screaming and crying. Without getting a spoonful of steamed spinach catapulted into your face.
How to Get Kids to Eat Healthy
Step 1: “Ice Cream” Smoothies
Tell the kids you’re going to make them an ice cream smoothie. Invite them to help. Proceed to make an all-fruit smoothie with a creamy base. Here’s a great day-1 recipe:
1 cup almond milk
1 cup ice cubes
2 ripe bananas
1 cup of strawberries
a few blackberries for a gorgeous purple color
This makes a drinkable smoothie, but you can decrease the almond milk, add more ice cubes, and start with frozen bananas if you want a spoonable “ice cream” consistency. It’s important to start with ripe, sweet ingredients. If the berries are a bit bitter as they sometimes are, add a couple of dates or a little bit of stevia, agave or pure maple syrup.
Pretty safe to say your kids are going to love this smoothie. While you’re all enjoying it together, talk about what’s in it. Tell them how healthy it is. Teach them what vitamins are and why they’re so important. Make them feel good about what they’re doing for their bodies by drinking this amazingly delicious ice cream.
Step 2: The Magic Leaf
Going from Step 1 to Step 2 is so easy, it can usually be done the very next day. “Remember that delicious ice cream smoothie we made yesterday? Who wants another one?”
Invite them to help make it again. Let them break apart the banana, add it to the blender, put the lid on and push the button. This time, get out the spinach and put one leaf in. “The magic ingredient that makes it taste extra delicious, gives you lots of energy, helps you grow strong so you can run faster and play harder!”
They’ll enjoy today’s smoothie just as much as yesterday’s, and they’ll know that the magic leaf didn’t change the taste of the smoothie.
(For older kids who know that a spinach leaf isn’t magic, just let them watch you put it in there because you “just want to see if you can taste it, and if it’s gross, we can start over.”)
Step 3: Green Smoothies
By day 3, your kids will already feel like smoothie-making pros. So get out all the ingredients: several fruit options and the bag/box of baby spinach. Lay it all out in front of them and tell them to start creating! You’ll of course help with any slicing and cutting, but allow them to be the inventor of their own smoothie. Young kids LOVE this! You might hear very precise requests like, “I want 4 strawberries and 7 grapes.” Let them make it on their terms, exactly how they want it.
Limit food-waste by giving them 1 rule: fill the smoothie jar with fruit until it’s half-way full. And you can gently encourage with things like, “Bananas make it taste extra sweet like ice cream. Strawberries and blueberries will turn it bright purple. Grapes will make it super juicy.”
Some kids may add spinach on their own, just because it’s laid out in front of them. If yours don’t, after all the fruit is added, say, “And how about the magic spinach leaves, how many of those do you want today? Go ahead and add as much as you like.”
You might be surprised to find your child starts adding spinach by the handful. They sometimes get so distracted by the fun of adding things into the blender that they don’t realize they’re adding something GREEN. Or, your child might just add one leaf. Encourage him to add a little more and remind him that he won’t taste it, and it will really help with his ____ (help him feel better if he’s currently got a cold… help him run faster if he loves to run… help him in any physical or intellectual area that he would find rewarding.)
Continue to increase greens with each smoothie. When you’re ready, start a habit of making one green smoothie every day. My kids each get about 12-16 ounces per day. Sometimes they choose to drink it as breakfast, sometimes they choose to sip on it at each meal, but they know by now that by bedtime, they need to finish their smoothie. Usually they do it with a smile, but sometimes it takes some reminding 🙂
A daily green smoothie habit alone is an enormous improvement. One pint is approximately 4-6 servings of fruit and veggies for your child.
NOTE: Consistency can be a huge deal for kids, and can make or break your healthy smoothie endeavors. If the thick texture grosses them out, just try again. Add it back into the blender with some water and tell them you’ll turn it into “juice” instead. Juice is a magic word, for sure! They’ll still get those servings, they’ll just get them more slowly throughout the day in the form of juice.
Step 4: TWELVE Servings a Day the Easy Way
Your child’s first 6 servings are taken care of with their green smoothie. The next step can be implemented more gradually than the first three. Start adding one raw fruit and one raw vegetable to your child’s plate at every meal. It’s okay if it’s the same thing every single day for the first few weeks. If your child will only eat carrots, that’s fine! To avoid waste, start small. For example if you have 3 kids, you might split a banana 3 ways and give them each 2 baby carrots.
Don’t force feed. In the beginning, some kids will completely ignore their veggies, and that’s okay. They’re getting used to them being on their plate, and that’s a bigger psychological step than us moms usually acknowledge. If they don’t touch it, save it in a baggie in the fridge to go into their next smoothie. Eventually they’ll pick it up and smell it. Or start playing with it. This is a good sign! They’re experiencing a new thing. Request that they try it, and encourage them to keep eating. But I speak to you from experience in learning the VERY HARD WAY, that you don’t want to make meal time a drag-out fight or a battle of wills. Keep the experience positive, or they’ll never come around.
Once your child is eating one raw fruit and one raw vegetable at breakfast, lunch and dinner, and drinking 12-16 ounces of green smoothie every day, she’s getting up to TWELVE servings of amazing nutrition that will serve her well in every are I mentioned above and countless more.
And, you know… this article isn’t just for the little ones. Many years ago I hated every vegetable I came across. Couldn’t even stand the smell of them. I had to baby-step my way into loving vegetables and even many fruits. Do you realize that you have the ability to give your children one of the best gifts you could offer them? Most would argue that if you don’t have your health and happiness, you have very litte. The younger your kids are, the easier it is to raise them with eating habits that will keep them healthy, strong, and emotionally balanced throughout their entire lives. If your kids are older, that’s okay! There might be a bit more resistance, but it’s never too late (I didn’t teach myself until my late 20s.)
Green Smoothie Recipe Collection
To help you get started, I compiled a book of delicious “beginner” smoothie recipes that you and your family will love. They’re perfect for those who don’t like the taste of vegetables because they’re sweetened with lots of fruit. Some of them were even created by my four-year-old! The book is my gift to you. Get yours today here.
Great article! My kids are all in their late teens now, but I had to struggle with getting them to eat healthy too. Luckily we didn’t have a house full of junk food and they grew up eating a great diet, but when they got around their friends, they would be eating Lucky charms cereal, poptarts, soda and pizza. Yuk! Happily now that they are almost grown,they actually understand the value and true taste of REAL food and really appreciate it, and seek it out. It’s very gratifying that my son calls me from college to let me know when he will be home to visit and his first request is a home cooked dinner of grass fed meat, and organic veggies. Kids will appreciate real food, so don’t give up. Let it be what’s in your home!
Wonderful article, McKenna! I look forward to your emails and enjoy all the tips and iformation!
Great article McKenna! Thank you so much for sharing your great ideas with us 🙂
McKenna,
this is one of the best articles I’ve seen yet on this topic! Thank you – I’ll be using this as a resource both for myself (four youngins in my house!) as well as with my clients in our strategy sessions…thank you for the great info you put out! Priceless!
Thanks, McKenna!! I can’t wait to get my kids to start eating healthier! They LOVE smoothies so this is going to be really easy to do the green smoothie. The only one I have to worry about is my husband. He refuses to eat berries of any kind and even the smell of bananas he has a hard time with. He hates it when I get bananas because the kitchen “stinks”. lol How did you overcome your hate of veggies and most fruits? I’ve tried just giving him a salad with a meal but he eats it with a look as if I’m poisoning him. What he doesn’t understand is the junk he eats is really what’s poisoning him.
Great article…it’s as if you read my mind! We are trying to “change up” my little guys diet too to include those things that are not only better for him, but those veggies and fruits that he will enjoy! Thanks for the great tips!
This is just what I was looking for! We have been incorporating a lot more fruit and veggies in my son’s diet and now that is what he asks me for when he is hungry! I’m thrilled at how quickly he has changed. (It’s only been about 2 weeks) He seems a lot happier, he is easier to reason with, and does not get nearly as angry and he used to. Thank you for sharing all this information with us. Now I know where we can improve healthy eating for him and make even more changes.
Great article! I am really trying to work on getting my kids to eat healthy and this is so helpful! Thanks!
Fabulous resource for all of us for a better way of eating…Yes, I am a “picky eater” ! I remember struggling as a child to get those veggies down and it only got better when I was allowed to eat raw veggies! Thanks for sharing this McKenna, there is hope for me!!
My child hates smoothies!!! And anything else smooth and blended like soups and ice-cream. I think it reminds her of baby food lol. Any tips for me?
Sian, does she like juice? Water it down as much as she needs in order to enjoy it, and have her drink it with a straw. Technically she’ll be getting less than if it weren’t watered down, so let her drink all the “juice” she wants! 🙂 If the texture is wigging her out, don’t try to force it. Have her drink “juice” for several weeks and then ever-so-slowly and gradually thicken it up for her. Make a big smoothie for yourself, pour it into your glass, leaving just about a cup of it in the blender to water down. Re-blend with 1/2 cup – 1 cup water so that it’s super smooth like juice. Save her extra juice in the fridge for up to 24 hours (sometimes 48, depending on the fruits you chose)
Great info. Maybe less health challenges for the kiddos once they eat healthier too. I believe so.
I love your ideas. It sounds like a great way to get kids to eat better. My girls love the green smoothies, but I have a hard time getting my boys to drink them. We never made vegetables an option in our family. You must eat your veggies at meal time. That is how my kids grew up, and they will eat what is on their plate. I agree that consistency and perseverance is the key to get them to eat healthy. Thanks again for all the great tips and ideas!
Love this!!! We didn’t do smoothies when my kids were little, but fortunately they liked everything, but how fun to make smoothies with the “magic leaf”. SO fun and kids will totally love this too! Great Idea McKenna!
I LOVE green smoothies and drink one almost every day!
Excellent article McKenna! Great 3-step process for the “Green Smoothie’s”…Thanks for sharing! …Hughie
Great articles on such an important topic McKenna. After years of research on nutrition, the conclusion always comes out the same . . . dark leafy greens are the ultimate food with the highest density nutrients. Fruits, berries, nuts and seeds follow right behind. Meat and dairy is at the very bottom of the scale because they have very little nutritional value. This is confirmed by the ANDI scale, the Aggregate Nutrition Density Index developed by Dr. Joel Fuhrman and used by Whole Foods Markets and leading dietitians. I find it so difficult to get my kids to eat their greens that I developed a new product called SuperPops. It tastes so good that everybody asks for more and the nutrition is unrivaled by any prepared food on the planet. This is my contribution to helping parents get the proper nutrition to their children so they can live healthy lives. It is truly profound!!!
My partner and I expect to have SuperPops in the markets in the first half of 2012.
I love the green smoothies when I have the time to make them but the SuperPops offer a quick solution by just pulling one or two out of the freezer and eating them on the spot with no preparation.
Great work! Keep helping to educate people about the power of healthy food.
Richard C.
Great article! I started with the green smoothies about a year ago and my kids LOVE them! By far, the best way so far to get them some good greens. Thanks for more great ideas.
I’ve heard of the secret smoothies secret and I’ve tried it. Unfortunately my son dealt with food and sensory issues at an early age and does not care for the texture of smoothies. My mom finally gave me some ideas that have actually workers miraculously for him. We made him apart of meal time by being a hands on helper. He sets the table, then we put a bit of each food item in a small enough bowl for him to carry to the table. After we talk up the food and how exciting and yummy it is we let him serve himself. This is the really great part because we give him a regular small spoon to do it with and he likes that he gets to control how much is put on his plate. I usually try to put at least one thing on his plate I know he’ll eat then before he gets to take a bite of his fav he has to eat at least one bite of the other foods first. We were skeptical at first but since our first meal we’ve never had issues. He even at his little serving of mixed veggies, a first for him!
Great info! Smoothies and Juicing are how I’ve gotten my kids to eat their fruits and veggies, now my daughter will eat raw veggies like carrots, bell peppers, and a few others. My 2 year old is so picky and communication is more difficult. But when I get out the blender or juicer he gets so excited. His favorite is “strawberry lemonade” in the juicer (carrots, strawberries, banana, cucumber, lemon and spinach) I also made my kids this rainbow in my tummy activity magnet set to keep them motivated to make a magic rainbow in their tummy every day….I made a customizable template you can check it out here
http://candacecreations.blogspot.com/2012/02/nummy-nummy-theres-rainbow-in-my-tummy.html